Adam and Heather Hayes

I was really perking up during the warm, snow-melting days we've had lately. Then Adam started us off on a LONG week! He was up at BYUI from 7-3. When he finally made it to Jacob Quinn's mission-come-home party he had a high fever and was hungry but couldn't eat much. He slept the rest of Sunday, most of Monday, all of Tuesday, by Wednesday he could at least get out of bed and work. All this time he ran a 103-104 fever. He'd be fevered, then it would break, then a couple hours later he was fevered again. It seemed to come out of nowhere. He had a sore throat and a cough, but who knew such a fever would come with that? By Wednesday Viola had it too. Thursday Erith had it. We took everyone into the doctor and they said we all had the flu.

So we all started TAMIFLU and it really helps! The fevers went away super fast. We're still working on the sore throats and coughs. Viola broke out in a huge swelling rash Thursday night, the day she started taking Tamiflu. So I called the doctor and said she must be allergic to it but he said that was not a side affect of that medicine and it must be an allergy to something else. Well, I did switch laundry detergent that week. So lucky me, I got to go buy the old detergent and rewash everything. Two doses of children's Benadryl and rewashing took care of the rash thank goodness.

Then Friday Vi woke up with goopy eyes. By Saturday they were swollen and pink and would hardly open! I was really starting to wonder if she was supposed to make it . We got her on Vigamox eye drops and by Sunday they looked normal again.

Here it is Monday and I'm praying the sunshine will bring health and happiness back to this house! I never got the fever but the sore throat/cough part has not been a laugh. Tric never got the fever either and bless her heart, she's been such a good little nurse. She checked Erith's temperature and gave her cool rags for her forehead all day Thursday while I was taking care of Vi.

And I guess I should say Vi and Adam who got it the worst really pulled through! The sleepless nights were worth it!? I can't tell you how humbling it is to see the thermometer say 103.9 at one o'clock in the morning and knowing if you just let your body give in to sleep your child or husband may have a fried brain in the morning.

I LOVE GOOD HEALTH! I love to see my kids with energy to run and play! You don't know what you got till it's gone!

I just told the ladies I exercise with that I didn't get flu shots because they don't always guess the right strain that hits this area.  After Tric and I coughing and running a fever for 3-5 days and tagging the next kids in line right as we got better, I'm having second thoughts on whether the flu shot is worth it!  I was pretty sure on Thursday that I wouldn't be able to go to my sister's wedding on Saturday, but I took all the vitamins and medicines I could think of, and prayed and thought possitive thoughts and I got better unusually fast and made it to the wedding.  Now I just have to get Vi and Clara over it.  I do have to take a moment and brag about the good husband I have.  He has played the breadwinner, cook, carpooler, and nurse this week with a very cranky wife.  When I'm sick, my insulin doesn't work well at all, and so my bloodsugar was running higher, and when I'm high, I'm a GROUCH!  He puts up with me somehow, and keeps cold rags on 103 degreed foreheads, and I really appreciate it. 

I am just having a bad. trying not to break down and cry day.  Nothing horrible has happened, I just can't seem to turn the frown upside down.  I burned my finger making gravy for dinner tonight and it is throbbing.  I've cleaned my house oh, 3 times today and it is a mess again.  My kids won't obey me until I've asked 10 times or raised my voice.  Clara won't leave my side.  People everywhere are freaked out about the swine flu.  Tricity's best friend has decided to go to the neighboring school district next school year.  Adam has church and volleyball every night this week except Saturday night.  It is so cold and rainy, I am just bummed.